KNOW PEOPLE FOR YOURSELF!!!!

Good evening excellent and wonderful friends...... It's been a busy Saturday...
Today I will be dealing with a misconception.... Often time people relate with people based on preconceived ideas based on what they have heard or seen...without going close enough to that individual to understand the person with a clear heart to really understand not coming around to pick more negative things to add to what they already know whether true or false.

Personally in uni days I really heard so many nasty rumours about myself... Really I didn't bother about defending myself and I just concluded that these people barely know me and still don't know me and won't know me except they come close enough to know. So that's same way with other people I believe not just me... Really what's the use in hearing or seeing something you haven't confirmed from the direct source and then you become a carrier of some kinda gossip... which continues to spread... And mostly likely presents one in a bad way, defames one, etc...



I would really advice... It's only less busy people that keep on talking about one that is busy doing something. There are the news makers and those that spread the news... If at all you fall into the category of them that make the news by being busy doing things... Try to do stuff that when the broadcasters wanna broadcast they can only say good stuff... Either ways nobody stops anyone from talking... People talk.. Whether good or bad... So if at all you want to talk concentrate on talking the positives or the strengths of people..

You know why, you never know what people go through... Before you see an act, there is a scripting of the mind that the person plays out... There is more to what you hear than just hearsay... You will be amazed to know the truth of a certain gossip...it might knock you off your knees...Things don't just happen and people are not all that crazy.. Everybody desires well for themselves but maybe approaches things differently....  But you might not go close enough to know the truth sometimes cos someone like me honestly, in most cases don't open up so the best way to relate with people is to celebrate their strengths and keep pushing them.... Be a good support system not the other way round...

Let's build healthy relationships cos at the end of the day everyone has a story we can all learn from... And know you will give account for every word you say, even idle talks as well.. Be nicer today.
Love you loads!  Have a beautiful weekend... God loves you above all... 💑💑😘😘😘😍😍😍😎😎

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