Discover Yourself

Growing up, I got used to the word selfishness in terms of money, allocation of resources, basically anything that involves sharing or that has to do with position. Recently, I got to understand selfishness in the area of relationship.  Are they possibilities you could be selfish in your relationship? How do you solve that even? Is it a norm? Where does selfishness lead us truly to?  I would love to refer us back to one of my previous posts; " The principle of needs in relationship".  https://doxified.blogspot.com.ng/2017/11/the-principle-of-needs-in-your.html?m=1 In that post, I made mention that it is key for each one of us to be able to identify the basic needs of the opposite gender and major on fulfilling it. This because when issues like quarrel, bitterness, frustration, argument,misunderstanding erupt in your relationship...it is simply a question of selfishness.  When you focus on meeting the needs of your partner diligently with or without e...

February is about closing its curtains on us in few days and leaving us to embrace the possibilities wrapped up in the month of March. It's been an exciting year for us all, however... some haven't come to terms with achieving their goals and how possible it is to strike that dart that hits all targets...  For me before the year began, I wrote my goals and faced them doggedly only to find them all achieved by January. I had to rewrite bigger goals and trust God to help me through them. Even in February, I conquered more in the face of difficult and trying times. Point is everyone goes through stuff but that shouldn't discourage you, rather it should be a springboard for you to soar as it was for me this month... I hope you find this article useful as you are being stirred up to remain on course and fight to finish victoriously. **You are your thoughts **You can go as far as you think positively or negatively ** You are made alive or dead by what you think eg ...

This year began with so much expectations especially for the blog and I had something working out but challenges surfaced here and there and I paused to think, are there possibilities that in spite of the daunting seemingly difficult situations you could still come out victoriously? Beloved, it's all about a mindset. If your mind is set on victory, you have and will do all it takes to come out victorious. But if your mind isn't set on possibilities of a bright future, a winning life, you would see yourself taking a step forward and two steps backwards; grumbling through life, wondering why things aren't working out as you planned and feeling frustrated as the days go by. As this was my experience this month, I had my mind set on excellence, productivity, results, success, despite the challenges that surfaced. I decided to go back to this blog while I fix the challenges cos I wasn't going to give up on myself... Why do I share this? You are greatness personif...