COMPARISONS

Good afternoon beloved.... It's been a beautiful afternoon... A beautiful Wednesday and as we all know, it's our Relationship day... And today is so exciting...

Ok let's get at it.... I have ever wondered why people make certain comparisons that hampers their relationships. Comparison kills... Comparison doesn't give you that breathing space to be yourself and celebrate your uniqueness and be all you plan to achieve.



Like I keep saying, men are in sizes... Relationships are peculiar... What works for one might not work for others and so it would be very dangerous to have same expectations in your relationships as it is with another...

So dearest, the best way is to understand the uniqueness of your relationships...appreciate the uniqueness of it... Build it, value it and feed it to grow and blossom than to remind your friend to do things originally that he or she is not cut out for. Discover the beauty in your friends or relationships and be content with that.

Cos another person goes to the moon for trips or vacations doesn't mean you demand that in yours. Or that another person demands iPhones or Peruvian hair for birthday gifts doesn't mean you won't accept a nice birthday card and be content with that..

So please be wise and know everyone is not like you and every relationship is not and will never be like yours... So stay put and understand the reality of the stuff you are into.

Bye for now. Love you and bless you...
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