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PURPOSE

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Good morning dearly beloved, It is a great privilege to be writing to us all. Every day I thank God for his opportunities, for new ideas, for new inspirations, for new mercies, for a bright new happy morning. God is faithful per second if you could just trust Him. Here we are today... Today is very special to me cos today's post is all about Purpose. Let me start this way... When you buy a new phone let's say Nokia 3310 and another buys Iphone 6s plus....the purpose that Nokia 3310 serves is distinctly different from the purpose that the iphone 6s plus would serve. For example, a Nokia 3310 can't whatsapp, facebook, or even take pictures not even Bluetooth... It's mostly best for calls....I learnt to call it the communication device whereas the iphone6s plus phone does much more that the former can't do. So it is with us... You are like that phone... I might be a different model... We are all different models of one manufacturer created for a unique purpose....

BE YOURSELF

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Good morning beloved, it is a beautiful morning. Happy weekend. Daily as I think on the opportunities God gives me to write and inspire people,I only can say Thank you both to my maker and to you as well... For finding the time to read and support this blog. I can't thank you enough and may God bless you surly and cause the eyes of your understanding to be enlightened through this blog. Wow... Today's post is very exciting, something we all can relate with, very dramatic topic... I'm very happy to be bringing it to light this morning, so please flow with me. Alright we will be talking about Be yourself. Do you know you are the best of your kind, whether dark, fair, tall, short, slim, fat, intelligent, not intelligent, etc? Do you really know? Of course you will say yes... Then what could make you to compare yourself with another, developing feelings of insecurities? Why are you not comfortable with your person? Why do you have to please others doing what you originally ...

DETERMINATION

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Good evening dearie...Hope you have been awesome.. Yeah today's post is coming now but it's better late than never. I'm committed to helping you discover yourself on a daily basis, hence the push to still put something down today. Today we will be summarizing all we have been saying this week so far in just one word: Determination. What is determination? It is a positive emotional feeling that involves persevering towards a difficult goal in spite of the obstacles. It occurs prior to goal attainment and serves to motivate one's behavior towards achievement of that goal. Let me paint the picture clearer this way?  Is the task before you difficult? Obviously yes. But can you quit or give up? The answer is NO and that's in simple terms DETERMINATION. So it's all about keep pushing, keep putting efforts until you get the goal in the midst of weakness, tiredness, 'no head way';  cos something really it's happening.... So don't give up on thos...

TRUST

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Yeah... Hellur.... Good morning beloved... It's that moment! Yep.. Okk it's no longer news that Wednesdays are for relationships on this awesome blog where you discover yourself... Today... We are going to talk on a crucial necessity that's vital in our relationships and that's trust. Most people don't really understand what trust means and so they don't really care what happens when that trust is broken. Personally when trust is broken it is equal to say that relationship is broken except by the special grace of God whereby that relationship will be mended but it would never come alive as when the trust was still in place. From the dictionary, trust is the reliance on the integrity, ability or strength of someone. Before I go on, I would say there are levels of relationships or friendships ranging from acquaintance to intimate friends and upon each of these levels there are degrees of trust that are expected and required. Now that you understand what ...

DILIGENCE

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"not lagging in  diligence, fervent in spirit, serving the Lord. (Romans 12:11)". Good evening family. Hope you are doing excellently well today. Today has been wonderful and we thank God for a beautiful and favorable day as this. Okkk so today we will be talking on diligence.. What's diligence in simple terms and what's the use of diligence in the accomplishments of your goals? Okk so diligence can be akin to what we know as hard work in simple terms. Diligence I  would say is the bridge between your goals and the reality of those goals. So the efforts you employ in seeing your goals materialize is what diligence is all about. So for you to have something to be diligent, you must have a goal. So how many of you still have your goals for the year....academically, spiritually, financially, relationship wise, etc? And how much efforts have you put so far to see those goals actualize? The thing is most people start up on fire to see their goals met but along t...

FOCUS

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" Brethren, I do not count myself to have apprehended; but one thing I do, forgetting those things which are behind and reaching forward to those things which are ahead. (Philippians 3:13)". Hello everyone. It's an exciting day for me and I am grateful to God for this brand new day full day of daily benefits... benefits of joy, love, supply, favor, wisdom and of course His awesome presence. Hmmm.... Today we have an interesting topic to share. I have come to find out whether we like it or not or recognize it or not, there are distractions that lurk around on your way of success and the way to get rid of them is to maintain your focus. These distractions can come in various forms ranging from people to experiences to even goals themselves... Distractions are everywhere and until you shut the door against them,  you will find it difficult reaching that expected end of yours with ease and in time. One skill you need to have is the ability to identify a distraction or a d...

LIFE IS A JOURNEY

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Good morning everyone. Happy beautiful Sunday. I want to believe you have been doing well. I am really grateful for your commitment to our just concluded series:Preparation. Today I have really been pondering on what to say today and I got the message Life is a journey... Journey to where and from where?... What is it about life? Here is it...  Life my spiritual father always says is spiritual. You can't make a journey except you are alive and to be alive you have to be born. Life being spiritual means the journey of life is embarked on with dependency on the spiritual. Hence like I explained to make this journey fruitful, you have to be born. Being born I mean spiritual birth. Are you born again? Or have you been before but you backslid and now you are not sure of your standing with God? Are you always filled with thoughts of fear and uncertainties? What's your relationship with your creator?  Have you made peace with Him?  I would leave you to answer this ...

PHYSICAL PREPARATION

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Good morning beloved. I am certain you are doing well today. Today happens to be the day we would be alighting on this series; Preparation. It won't be fair on my part as a medical practitioner to fail to mention the need to physically prepare cos of all we have talked about this week you need to be balanced in your health to be able to achieve them... Health is wealth they say.  So today we will be ending with this post on Physically preparing with emphasis on food and exercise as it relates to our healthy lifestyle. The Bible says bodily exercise profits a little... So there is the need to exercise your body and keep fit and look smart. It is not until you are obese that you need to hit the gym... Neither is exercise all about going to the gym. You can exercise at home even at your comfort and you can exercise whether slim or fat or tall or short... The whole point is let it be part of your daily or weekly routine. If you want to cheat or not is up to you... You and...

FINANCIAL PREPARATION

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Good morning family.... I am so excited so far cos of the fulfillment I have derived through this series on Preparation. I have found out most people just jump into things without adequately preparing for them.  We know of a saying that says If you fail to plan, you plan to fail. Time is a very crucial resource and you need time to prepare. Time won't always wait for you. It's better early than a late and hurried preparation. Howbeit, how many of us want to be rich with stuff in this world? Of course we all are,  but how many are ready to pay the price of preparation to achieve this?.... Sadly few.  You need to prepare yourself financially as well to be rich in life. One quick secret I have always worked with and I am going to share that has helped me to never be in lack what so ever is this.. Seek to multiply your assets.. When you have money at hand think on doing things that bring more money in(assets) and minimize on using your money on things that would take ...

MENTAL PREPARATION

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"  For as he thinketh in his heart, so is he.(Proverbs 23:7)". Good morning beloved.  Thank you so far for your commitment to this blog. I appreciate. As you know, we have been on a series called Preparation and so far it's been a blessing. Today we would be looking at mental preparation. I for one know the greatest battle or limitation  we face in life or have is the battle of the mind. The difference between a success and a failure exposed to same resources lies in the mindset of those people. Your mind is a resource that you must invest in productively to achieve all you want to. I always say you can be all you want to be only if you can think it, see it and become it.. Life is easy... Life turns out to be what you have thought it out to be for you. Don't say life is not fair on you...you can decide what life should offer you. The above scripture states as you think,  that is how you are... So who you will be is directly proportional to your thinking. ...

MARITAL PREPARATION

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Good morning friends. I'm sure yesterday went well with you ! We are still up on the series -preparation. As promised today is Wednesday...and as usual it's our Relationship day... And I am so excited each week when it comes to Wednesday. Let's get right to business today...we are still soaring.. Preparation involves planning. Planning plays an important role in determining the success of the home in view...for those in a relationship heading to marriage. Jesus in Luke 14: 28-32 brought out the importance of planning. Proverbs 14:1 says every wise woman buildeth her house...Good buildings require good planning. Just as inadequate or lack of planning in the building of a physical house affects the building at a latter date,the same way lack of adequate planning can affect the anticipated home. Come to think of it, you spend years to study a professional course in school...how much time have you put down in preparation of a life-time course called marriage... I didnt ...

WHY VALENTINE ?

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HISTORY OF VALENTINE... Every February 14, people across the world exchange candy, flowers and gifts with their loved ones, all in the name of St. Valentine. It is considered to be the best day to express your love and care for your special one or even express your feelings to the one you love. But do they really know the history behind this day? Here is how it started: According to the Catholic Encyclopedia, there were at least three early Christian saints by that name. One was a priest in Rome, another a bishop in Terni, and the third, St. Valentine which almost nothing is known about, except that he met his end in Africa. Astonishingly, all the three Valentines were said to have been martyred on February 14. Valentine who was a priest, served during the third century in Rome. When Emperor Claudius II decided that single men made better soldiers than those with wives and families, he outlawed marriage for young men. Valentine felt this was unfair so he celebrated marriages in s...

SPIRITUAL PREPARATION

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My Man of God told me one time that a prayerful preparation precedes a glorious manifestation. Frankly speaking, this life we live or have as Christians is spiritual and until we see things from that view point we would only be seeing things from the carnal mind and thus make no glorious manifestations in life...cos everything in life is governed from the spirit realm. So how prepared are you spiritually to face the challenges of life ?  How prepared are you to fight every fiery dart of the evil one ? How prepared are you for the rapture ?  How often do you fast and pray ? How often do you study the Bible ?  How often do you commune with the Father ?  Who is God to you...an idol or a Father ?  Who are you when stripped naked before the Master,king Jesus ?  How is the state of your mind ?  Who are you really and who do you serve ? Who are you before the devil-a prey or an enemy ? Where are you spiritually ?  How far do you want to go in your spi...

PREPARATION SERIES

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Good morning everyone.. I hope your weekend was blessing filled. I just want to say a big thank You and a sincere appreciation for taking out time to read through my posts, for liking,sharing and even commenting. I am super grateful and deeply honored and I celebrate you. By the grace of God this week we would taking another dive into a series called Preparation. By preparation I mean as it affects life in general...spiritually,financially,maritally and career wise. Over time I have come to discover that a prepared man is always one step ahead than his peers in his generation. It takes a lot of sacrifices to prepare for the best God has for you. In as much as God can't force you to do anything,you must know preparation is never a wasted time. The more prepared you are, the better placed you would be in life and the more valuable you would become. So tighten your seat belts cos the flight is set to take off as from tomorrow. See ya! HAPPY SUNDAY AND WELCOME T...

HONESTY AND SINCERITY

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The word Honest comes from the Latin word honestus, meaning honorable...The word Sincere comes the Latin word sincerus, meaning pure or clean. It is usually used to indicate the quality of being genuine,not feigned  without hypocrisy . God expects and deserves honesty...and we can see this in  Psalm 51:6 that says" You deserve honesty..."   Being dishonest about someone is as harmful and hurtful as a physical wound. Proverbs 25:18 TLB tells us that telling lies about someone is as harmful as hitting him with an axe or shooting him with a sword... The Lord does not approve of dishonesty in business dealings...Proverbs 20:23 shows how the Lord is displeased with those who cheat.. Be honest and open. 1 Thessalonians 2:3, TLB says  "So you can see that we were not preaching with any false motives or evil purposes in mind; we were perfectly straightforward and sincere." II Corinthians 8:21, NIV says, "For we are taking pains to do what is right, not only in t...

YOU ARE YOUR WEALTH

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It all starts from nothing. All of us came into this world naked,helpless and ignorant. So it is whenever you want to start a new project. The first task is to take stock of  your resources. In business it is called preparing a balance sheet, an overview of your assets and liabilities.  Example of some assets are cash, securities and other liquid investments,real estate,cars,equipments,furniture, jewelry,etc while some liabilities are debts, obligations,mortgages, bank loans, promissory notes,etc. When you subtract your liabilities from your assets, you come up with your net worth. If you want to be a net millionaire...then what you own minus what you owe must be more than a million dollars. Having such balance sheet assumes that it is our possessions that make us wealthy. The truth is many invisible items are left off the traditional balance sheet. These invisible assets are the real source for all the wealth we possess. For instance what about the original business i...

EXCELLENCE

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" Then this Daniel was preferred above the presidents and princes, because an excellent spirit was in him; and the king thought to set him over the whole realm".(Daniel 6:3) Excellence in simple terms is surpassing laid down standards...going above the ordinary...it is doing the right thing the right way,the first time. As a child of God..the question shouldn't be if you can be excellent in everything about you...because when you got born again you received automatically the Holy Spirit who is the Spirit of excellence. So you have what and all it takes to be excellent. Personally I love to be practical and bring down things to base level. It scratches me eyes and gets me thinking when I see people type or write and send their works without going through them..leaving the plenty grammatical blunders obviously staring at you. Now excellence is after you write, or do anything be patient enough to pause and go through your work,erase any mistakes, proof read them a...

HOW TO FIND A MARRIAGE PARTNER

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Heyyy guys...It is the most important day of the week for me...It's Wednesday...our relationship day for the week...Always an exciting and learning experience for me. Let's dive in to how to find a marriage partner.. " Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing,and obtaineth favour of the Lord.(Proverbs 18:22)". Anyone who is considering marriage is required to take some steps in locating a partner... I'm going to highlight some of those steps. The bible says ask and it shall be given unto you; seek and ye shall find... The underlying prerequisite for finding is seeking and seeking involves a diligent search..The following steps would help you in locating a partner for marriage.. 1. Desire a partner. You have to sincerely desire a partner. You must be honest with yourself. What you don't desire may not be appreciated. Desires are primarily in the heart but find expression on the outside eventually. Admit your desire for a marriage partner before Go...

IT'S ALL IN YOU.

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Why do you look down on yourself? Why do you disqualify yourself from God's best? Why are scared of doing something outside the norm, being daring and innovative? Why are you scared of leaving your comfort zone?Why are scared of change? Why don't you believe in God's best cos you are the best of your kind? Why are you not fulfilled and live an unhappy life? Finally why are you the way you are? Beloved, lemme tell you the basic truth and the truth is You are the Problem. Don't blame anybody or say nobody's pushing you or motivating you. The funny thing is you don't need anybody but You to push you forward. See even if the whole world encourages you and inspires you, yet you don't believe in yourself...trust me you would still be your old self....not making progress. You have to break away from those fears and challenges. You are bigger on the inside cos the Greater One lives on the inside of you. Dearest, I believe in You. God believes in You moreso c...

TOTAL PACKAGING

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HELLO FAMILY... Good morning to you. I want to believe your night was refreshing. It's a new week...new opportunities, new levels to attain, new grounds to cover, new mercies,etc. And of course something new on this blog... Today I would be talking about Total Packaging... I would start by saying it is not enough to have a good content but the packaging of that thing be it yourself, your words, your business,etc is of utmost value and importance. Everything I am...the most part of my beautiful and easy-going life is as a result of my encounter with my spiritual mother, Pst Elsie Nwando...The strength I have,wisdom,excellence,teaching abilities,etc would all be attributed to her cos of the seeds of correction,love,wisdom she deposited in me. This topic I am about to discuss was one of the things she taught me in my 3rd year in uni. It all started on one Sunday afternoon after service that she was saying; Eunice, you have a good heart,you have good intentions, you never planned ...

LOYALTY AND DISLOYALTY: STAGES OF DISLOYALTY

Today brings us to the end of our journey and safe arrival on the subject matter of Loyalty and disloyalty. Without wasting much time, the best is always reserved last...so we will be looking at the 7th and 8th stages of disloyalty and briefly look at the signs of a disloyal person. Seventh stage is open rebellion and eighth stage is execution...you can check on the previous blog by clicking left on this blog post. Open Rebellion: Here the deceived insurrectionists fight openly against their leaders in all aspects of life due to the confidence the rebel developed over the weeks,months and years against his leader. Execution: Mostly people rebel cos of ignorance and their innocence. Definitely every disloyal person doesnt end well..things don't go well for the person and in broader terms he will be executed. Signs of a disloyal person.. 1.One who disappoints you in time of crises and pressure. 2.One who has moral weakness i.e refuses to be corrected or improve 3.One who ...

LOYALTY AND DISLOYALTY: STAGES OF DISLOYALTY PT3

Good morning esteemed friends. Hope you woke up stronger than before. It is nice to have to impact once again on the subject matter of Loyalty and Disloyalty. Today we will be looking at the fifth and sixth stages of disloyalty. Meanwhile a lil recap on the third and fourth stages which were passivity and critical stage respectively. Passivity is doing and saying nothing..being indifferent, unconcerned and uninvolved. The uninterested person is not involved for a reason...don't overlook it. Critical stage as the name implies means the person is a critic...most times a negative one..He criticizes and scrutinizes every move,word,even smile etc. Today we will be looking at the fifth stage which is political stage and the sixth stage which is deception.. Political stage: This stage involves others in his ideas and philosophies. Remember I said loyalty demands openness so people can buy into you. Political stage is same thing just that people buy into the lies of what the dislo...

LOYALTY AND DISLOYALTY: STAGES OF DISLOYALTY PT2

Good morning gracious family. Hope you are doing great. Happy weekend. Well we will be continuing from yesterday's post on the stages of disloyalty...Today we would be looking at the third and fourth stages respectively. A quick reminder: Yesterday we looked at the stage of Independence wherein we saw an independent person does what he feels like doing irrespective of the laid down rules but we are advised not to be like that. Also we saw the stage of offence where a disloyal person is always offended due to hurts or past experiences and the only way forward is to love in order to practice loyalty. Today we are looking at Passivity as the third stage of disloyalty. Passivity: Passivity means to be indifferent, unconcerned and uninvolved. A passive christian is a disloyal one. The uninvolved person is not involved for a reason. Passivity is doing nothing and saying nothing !!  Always ask are you happy ?  And make sure that those around you are secure and content. Passivi...

LOYALTY AND DISLOYALTY: STAGES OF DISLOYALTY

Becoming disloyal is a process. Reasons to know the stages of disloyalty are mainly to identify and kill any disloyalty in you to enable you fulfill your calling in life and to detect any disloyalty in any person you work with and raise loyal people. When loyalty is taught by example,people would be loyal. Stages of disloyalty are 1.Independent spirit 2.Offence 3.Passivity 4.Critical stage 5.Political stage 6.Deception 7.Open rebellion 8.Execution We would be looking at the first two stages. Independent spirit: God has never raised any man independently. An independent person obeys certain instructions that he feels are important. Example your pastor might say there will be fasting this week, and an independent spirit would say he would fast this Saturday alone or even next week. Don't think you are indispensable. If you are part of a denomination,group or company pls dont be independent. You should not be independent to do as you like. Some mandatory meetings might b...