Discover Yourself

Hello beauties, I look forward to every Wednesday cos of you and me...today's relationship post is kinda a personal one....when i mean personal, it relates to you and you only... How do you feel or react when you are told you really don't love yourself? Chill a bit... How would you feel when you know with proofs that at your age, you haven't discovered yourself enough to come to terms with loving you for you?.. That's what I am here to discuss knowing growth is progressive..and you can be better at loving you cos you possibly can't love someone else as much as you treat yourself. Do you know the decisions and choices you make in life are evidences of how truly you love yourself in all of its aspects? In life you live literally based on choices... You can choose to sleep 24hrs or choose something else to do with time and time is your life in motion... Do you really know what is life?? That life is  in your hands to live...Most times we talk about relationshi...

Labels like "husband","wife", "mother", "father", "sister", "brother", "friend" imply a close friendship but do you know that is a costly assumption? By the label, most people assume that they really know each other. How deceptive!!! No relationship should be closer, more personal or more intimate than that which exists between a husband and wife. Such intimacy involves not only love but also knowledge. A husband and wife should know each other better than they know anyone else in the world. They know each other's likes and dislikes, their strengths and weaknesses,their good and bad qualities, gifts and talents, their character flaws...infact they ought to know ideally those undesirable traits that they hide from everyone else. That's what the waiting process ought to be..a couple ought to know as much as possible about each other- good and bad before they stand together at the marriage altar. Marriag...

Because communication is an art, it must be deliberately, patiently, and carefully learned over time. Effective face-to-face communication is always holistic in nature, involving all the senses and the full engagement of the body, intellect and mental energy. Communication is an exchange of information (a message) between individuals in such a way as to bring mutual understanding. Every message contains three essential components: content,  tone of voice and non verbal signals like gestures, facial expressions and body language. When all three work in harmony, the probability of mutual understanding is very high. If any element is missing or contrary to the others, the likelihood of successful communication diminishes significantly. In our relationships, human emotions and personalities are involved. The non verbal elements are more significant than verbal. Research has shown that the verbal aspect comprises only 7% of the total message we send or the person receives. Tone o...