LOVE LANGUAGES!!!

HELLLURR Excellent family!! It is Wednesday and it is our Relationship day...How fast!


Before I go on the topic for the day, I would like us to be settled on this truth: God's love is perfect,eternal,unmerited and unconditional. The love of Christ for you is bigger than your problems; He has paid for all your sins after due calculations of your past,present and future sins..and yet He still chose you..so you don't have to worry about your mistakes ever...Know this that your future is bright..The devil wants you to know that God doesn't love you for the wrong you did...Sin consciousness is more dangerous than sin itself.God is not mad at you,the devil is a liar from the Beginning...God wants you to move on to fulfil your destiny.He hasn't given up on you if you haven't given up on Him and He doesn't withdraw some rights from you cos you did not meet up with His conditions...He loves you nonetheless with or without your input...

So that being said....we know we have three main ethnic languages in Nigeria for example: Igbo,Yoruba,Hausa whereby we understand each other...communicating Igbo to an Hausa man that is ignorant of the language is just a fruitless and less productive yet energy consuming way of communicating. Have that as a pix... You know some people could hear and understand yet unable to speak a particular language while there are some who could both hear and understand and speak the language...Between these two sets of people who do you think would effectively communicate his thoughts? Ofcourse the latter....

Same here in relationships, there are love languages which must be heard,understood and spoken to effectively communicate to one another...There are 5 of these languages which are common: Words of affirmation, Gifts, Service, Physical touch,and Quality time...

The key thing is to first start with yourself...understand among these 5 which love language you speak the most...then to your partner observe, understand and try to learn to speak his or her own love language...same way you learn other tribal languages just for effectiveness in communication..

The sacrifice you make to ensure you learn your friend's love language is vital to have a hitch-free relationship with absolutely anybody!!!

God bless you dear...these days I post late cos I have got occupied at work in the mornings...Thanks for your flexibility and adapting..
Love you a million loads....💑💑💑💑

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