THE LOVER

Okay, so I have made it a point of duty to post at least once in a week something relating to our relationships.
And here is one today...  'The lover'. Let's dive in beloved and find you.. 

Now I know that the word "lover " is thrown around carelessly  and often misused. Please understand me when I use the term "lover". I use it to describe the sanctity and holiness of a person in a committed marital relationship. But it means more than just being married. I use it to describe partners following God's divine plan. There are married people who are not lovers! 

Being an active participant in a committed marriage is not an easy task, and many people fail at it. 
Just because people have a hard time living up to the role doesn't mean that the concept of holy matrimony is faulty. God's plan is perfect. It is His creatures that are not.

Oh dearly beloved, being a good lover is more than hips, lips and finger tips. It is the ability to hold the cold wind of life in your hands until the wind warms under your loving touch. It is standing by the bed until the light goes out in my eyes and you kiss my face one final time. A good lover is the one who stays when all others have walked away.



One thing about life is that if you live long you will know it is a great equalizer.. The young become old, the beautiful become average and the smooth lines of the youth give way... 
If a relationship is based on physical attraction, what happens when the physical beauty fades? Life does bring changes. Many times we choose partners because they are physically appealing to us, then we find out there is not enough inner attraction to sustain us as they change. 
We all want someone we can count on to stand by us through thick or thin. Be that one person.

Most people think being a good lover is about being able to perform sexual feats with great skill and sensitivity.. But that's not actually true. A good lover doesn't start or end in the bedroom. Your mind and spirit need to be cared for too... Tragically, most of this generation has reduced love to sex. Marriage is meant to be forever, and the only way for a relationship to survive the uncertainty of the future is if true love is its foundation.
Everyone's ideal should be a relationship that will protect you from the storms of life... Let's go after it... 
Be that LOVER... love beyond the looks...

 Much love dearly beloved😘 

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