YOUR PART !!!!!

Hello pals.... What a wonderful day it is today...God's mercies are new every morning...His faithfulness are ever sure...there is just something about the spirit of God...He beautifies...He has beautified your life and my life.
Today is our relationship day...it's Wednesday...i am always specially excited every Wednesday cos I know someone's relationship life gets better by the day.

Hmmm today I would be talking about Your Part. There is a part you and only you have to play. I have tried to narrow down to think on the major problem why we have arguments and divorcee at the end of it...the reason is not far fetched...it is within us... The answer key is knowledge....Knowledge that puffs up...

Let's get to this...
Ephesians 5:22-25...
22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbandsin everything.
25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her

You see this above scripture is the center of which things fall apart... The truth is this ...this is what the bible said..but you should know your part and keep your eye on your part alone and make sure you do yours.
When i meant by knowledge puffing up is that these days a woman knows both the man's part and her part and accuses the man of not doing his part because she knows his part. And vice versa when it comes to men.
The drama goes as thus:

Man: woman you are rude and you nag alot...why are you this way ? 
Woman: Errhhnn yes thats good you know...why wont I be this way when you have failed to love me, bring money for cooking, take me shopping, look at how other men do it now...why should my case be different ? 
Man: Oh really ....how submissive are you as a woman ?  Ehnn where is your respect and honor ? How do you show it ? 
(interlude: slaps, hard blows...breaking of plates, bottles...finally court decides and they end up in divorce)


REALITY...THE WORD OF GOD...OUR STANDARD

Now it is very important how you read and how you understand the bible. Now lemme show you how you read that scripture above..
As a lady, you start oh wives submit to your own husbands...you pause... Oh really that means as a wife to be or as a wife that I am...the bible expects me to submit only to my own husband...ehhn okk..but the bible didnt say I should submit when he loves me or when he is good...there are no conditions to be met before i submit. My part of the deal is always to submit whether i like it or not... Then you keep reading to verse 25 that says husbands love your wives...what do you do..you say oh this has nothing to do with me...i am not a man or a husband to be...i have no business entirely about this part of the bible...it is not my part and it is not refering to me...and so i leave it. Thank you Jesus for the word.

Then over to you man...when reading the verses above
You begin verse 22 Wives.... Oh there and there you pause...you are not a woman neither are you an intending wife...that line of the verse has nothing to do with u so get it out of your thinking...then get to verse 25 and beyond and you see the bible tells you your part which is to love your wife...not your side chicks or girl friends...love your wife that you have married or will marry and you see oh wow my love for her is not dependent on whether she greets me or cooks this morning or even submits...you love nonetheless cos thats the only part God instructs you do....Now if any of you don't do your parts well...you have God to answer to and not yourselves cos it is assumed that you know your part to play only and you should focus on it....

God will be more pleased with you cos you are obedient to His word and obedience attracts the blessing of God and it is personal blessing cos both you and your partner are individually children of God...

So please lets apply wisdom and have healthy relationships in our world. God bless you duely. Love you more
Pls share,like and comments. Thanks. Have a beautiful day ! 

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