LOVE IS AN ONGOING DEBT

Happy New month guys,
It's May wow, we are almost approaching half of the year. Can you account today how successful the past 4months have been? What have you achieved so far?

Well, for today's relationship blog post; I would be buttressing this love issue as an ongoing debt. It is said that "agape" is a sacrificial, self-giving kind of love but how many of us live in the truth of that word? Do you know some people believe it is impossible to love that way as it is only meant for our Lord and savior? But it's possible if you keep putting it to work with everyone around you. It's a discipline and a training you give yourself and that's what brings about that spark in the marriage..

In marriage, agape means that spouses rather than overlook each other's faults and weaknesses, allow love overcome each other's shortcomings and not allow them to become points of strife and conflict.

Love without reason means loving regardless of the likeableness of the people involved and whether or not they reciprocate in that love. It sets forth no conditions, makes no demands, and holds no expectations. It carries no guarantee except to guarantee itself. 

A marriage based on this kind of love, is a roleless relationship because spouses love each other unconditionally, sacrificially, and without fixed expectations of each other. Fueled by love, their relationship is characterized by responding to needs rather than conforming to fixed roles.

Love is an ongoing debt that we owe each other, a debt that should never be paid off. If we get into the habit of thinking of ourselves as always owing a debt of love to our spouses, we will be less inclined to take offense when they say or do something that we don't like.

Keep loving... Not just your spouse... Every relationship around you is an opportunity to perfect in your love walk. You can.
Love you guys! Thanks for your support!!  Please keep sharing. 😘😘😍

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